There’s a quiet sophistication to the world of cigars that often goes unnoticed by those outside it. On the surface, it can seem like a ritual rooted in tradition and routine—but beneath that lies a deeply personal experience shaped by time, intention, and presence. For those who truly understand it, cigars are less about the smoke and more about the moment.
What makes this culture especially compelling today is how it’s evolving. New voices are entering the space, bringing fresh perspectives that challenge long-standing norms while still respecting the craft. Among them are women who are not just participating, but actively reshaping what cigar culture looks and feels like.
This shift isn’t loud or forced—it’s organic. It’s happening through shared experiences, storytelling, and a growing appreciation for the artistry behind every blend, every pairing, and every ritual. It’s about creating space without asking for permission.
At the center of this evolution are individuals who approach cigars not as a status symbol, but as a form of connection—to themselves, to others, and to the world around them. Their stories are not defined by a single moment, but by a series of experiences that build meaning over time.
And sometimes, those stories begin simply—with a name, a handle, and a passion that slowly transforms into something much deeper.
Q: What is your full name?
A: Amy
Q: What is your social media handle?
A: @lavishwanderlust
Q: What was the moment you realized cigars were more than just a hobby for you?
A: There isn’t one particular moment that stands out, for me it was more of a gradual change. Where cigar smoking for me was occasional, mainly celebratory, I started to slow down and really pay attention to the art behind cigars. What seems quite simple on the surface actually is quite complex and intriguing. Realising that I was setting aside time to smoke a cigar and dedicating my time to the ritual and to the reflection was when I realised it was more of a personal experience than a hobby.
Q: Do you remember the first cigar that truly impressed you? What made it unforgettable?
A: My first truly unforgettable cigar was the Quai d’Orsay 54. It was my first time smoking cigar by myself, which made it even more meaningful. I was on a solo holiday, sitting on the beach, and what made it stand out wasn’t just the cigar itself, but the moment. The calm and the feeling of being completely at ease. As beautiful of a cigar as it is, it became more than a smoke. It was tied to a sense of peace and that’s what made the experience an unforgettable one. For me it was the perfect cigar in the perfect place
Q: The cigar world has historically been male-dominated. What has your experience been like carving out your own space in the industry?
A: Yes the cigar world has been historically male dominated but my experience of carving out my own space in the industry has been mostly positive. I have received alot of support from men in the industry, many of whom encourage more women to explore cigars. This has been incredibly empowering. At the same time the women I have met along the way have been amazing. It’s so great to see women with so much passion for creating more inclusive and welcoming space. It has been inspiring to be a part of this growing community
Q: If you had one cigar and one dram to enjoy tonight, what would you choose and why?
A: Oh a tough question 🤔 But if I have to choose given what I have with me right now …. I would go for a Suntory Hibiki Masters’ Select paired with a Por Larrañaga Petit Corona The whisky will compliment the cigar without overpowering it
Q: What is something about the cigar industry that most people would be surprised to learn?
A: Women in cigars – there’s a lot more than you’d think ! They’re not just smoking cigars but they’re blending, creating, educating, hosting, ambassadors, owning brands … the list is endless
Q: What does the ritual of lighting a cigar mean to you personally?
A: To me it is a signal to slow down, be present and to savour each flavour. It’s an intentional ritual almost as if meditating.
Q: How do you think women are changing or influencing cigar culture today?
A: Women are changing cigar culture by making it more inclusive, and approachable. Women are increasing social spaces, and bringing fresh perspectives on pairings and rituals, Women are helping the industry to transcend stereotypes and create a culture that values knowledge, elegance, and shared enjoyment.
Q: If you could share a cigar with any person in history, who would it be and what would you smoke together?
A: It would be a Cuaba Salomones with Cleopatra. History, power and elegance in one experience
Q: Is there a cigar brand or blend you think deserves far more recognition?
A: EP Carillo Encore It’s balanced and consistent. A smooth smoke for everyday enjoyment. It is great for beginners and seasoned smokers
Q: For women curious about cigars but intimidated to try, what advice would you give them?
A: Take your time, savor the moment, and trust your own palette. Also don’t be afraid reach out 🫶🏽
Q: Have you ever felt that being a woman in the cigar world changes how people perceive your palate or expertise — and has that ever worked to your advantage?
A: People might expect less, but I love showing that women know their cigars just as well … if not more.
Q: Is there a cigar you love that most ‘purists’ would secretly judge you for — and why do you enjoy it anyway?
A: Is this a trick question? Haha I smoke the cigars I enjoy, and that’s what matters. My own personal experience come before anyone else’s expectations.
Conclusion
What makes Amy’s perspective resonate isn’t just her knowledge—it’s her intention. There’s a mindfulness in the way she approaches cigars that goes beyond tasting notes or brand names. It’s about creating space for reflection in a world that rarely slows down.
Her journey reflects a broader shift happening across the cigar industry. It’s no longer defined by exclusivity or tradition alone, but by inclusivity, curiosity, and a willingness to evolve. And that evolution is being driven by individuals who bring authenticity into every aspect of the experience.
There’s also a quiet confidence in her approach. She doesn’t seek validation from purists or conform to expectations. Instead, she leans into personal preference—choosing enjoyment over approval, experience over perception.
That mindset is exactly what makes the culture more accessible. It opens the door for newcomers, especially women, to explore cigars without intimidation. It reframes the experience from something rigid into something personal and inviting.
In the end, it’s not about the perfect cigar or the perfect pairing. It’s about the moment you create around it—and the freedom to define that moment entirely on your own terms.
